The More Things Change

The New York skyline as it should be.

Where does the time go?  In 2001, the world had just been introduced to the iPod, Google was 3 years away from its IPO, the full scope of Enron's shenanigans had yet to be uncovered, and Mark Zuckerberg was still just a Harvard undergrad with a chip on his shoulder.  The changes since then have come so gradually that you only notice when you stop to think about the last time you didn't need to frantically search for your cellphone just to leave the house, check e-mail, actually hand write a  letter, or use an answering machine for all your messages, or wait until you made a special trip to see how much a baby has grown.  Everyone's phone is a camera granting us so much unprecedented access into each other's lives that being private has become an active choice, not the norm and our cars are on the verge of driving us.  Some us have become parents or uncles or anties or godparents.  We've gained friends, lost friends, changed jobs, changed cities, graduated from school, started businesses, or taken any number of steps toward our personal quest for "happy."  For families of the 9/11 victims, however, time stopped that day.

"Why are we still talking about this?  It was 14 years ago isn't Bin Laden dead?"
Imagine the most painful day of your life was documented on video from every possible angle, dissected by every political pundit and military analyst for the past decade plus, used as a talking point to stoke fear in a nation during elections, and permanently memorialized in 3 states with museums and monuments.  Let's also not forget the conspiracy theorists and armchair engineers, none of whom were here that day, who swear the whole thing was faked by the government for the sole purpose of going to war for oil.  This is clearly the perfect environment for emotional healing and spiritual renewal.  They can't move on because America hasn't moved on.  In truth, America doesn't move on from things like this and never will.  The Boston Massacre was the match that sparked the American Revolution, creating the original 13 states.  Bloody Kansas pushed us into the Civil War, abolishing chattel slavery.  Pearl Harbor dragged us into the Second World War, establishing the USA as a world superpower.  Each of these tragedies fundamentally changed the country and 9/11 will be no different.  It's too soon to get as clear a historical perspective as the over three pivot points I mentioned but a few things about Post 9/11 America are clear.

• America is more aggressive about hunting down terrorists and potential terrorists, even at the cost of privacy and personal freedom
• Modern patriotism seems to have taken on a more legalistic tone.  Self-described Constitutionalists treat the document as a static, infallible set of laws rather than the living malleable document it was designed to be.
• Adherence to ideology has overtaken compassion as an admirable trait

People have lost faith in each other and have developed an even more exaggerated fear of the "other." In that respect, the terrorists achieved their goal.  Life in America isn't the same as it once was, not that its ever static from year to year, but the unity we had as a nation right after the attacks has all but dissipated.  Even our government has lost the ability to compromise.  The simplest issues turn into government shutdowns.  This day shouldn't just remind people of the lives we've lost but a little but of our own humanity as well.  Our politicians, media, opinions, and entertainment all reflect the value we hold dear and we look like xenophobic hate mongers.  A little bit of all of us died that day and it shows.  Perhaps the best way to honor the 9/11 victims and sacrifices made by our military to bring Bin Laden to justice is to get back to being what we were before before that day.  We need to get back to being the country they would recognize.