Showing posts with label Social Commentary. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Social Commentary. Show all posts

Wednesday, August 24, 2016

Do You Really Want to Be Famous?



I think most of us associate fame with riches as if they're inextricably linked but Joe Frazier died broke and I bet no one reading this can name the CEO of Coca Cola without Google.  (Muhtar Kent, 1.6m in 2015) There are ways to the promised land without putting yourself in the public eye. This is why I have so much respect for my creative people. Singers, actors, comedians, writers, poets, artists (music and illustrative), dancers and people coming up with new ways to entertain us in ways they haven't quite categorized yet. There is nothing braver than standing in front of the world and saying "this is what I can do. Judge me." Being paid for being your authentic self is something most of us place firmly in the "LOL that'll NEVER happen" category but the ones that survive the experience, feel a euphoria that few can relate to.  That success, however, comes with a cost. Sometimes you sell your privacy, your dignity, and the very right to be respected as a human being because you're a public figure.  Some people think they own you and there's hell to pay if you disagree. The type of personal hell Leslie Jones is experiencing right now. Her public shaming has taken a vicious turn that goes well beyond racism, well beyond sexism, and well beyond sanity.  What's happening to her should be reserved for rapists, pedophiles, thieves, murderers, and corrupt politicians.  Her crime?  She got paid to make a movie you didn't like.  


The idea you can tell people how to react to their own experiences is something I'm all too familiar with. (Photo: Dailymail.co.uk)


Side note, the art of knowing when to shut the fuck up has been lost in this country so I cordially invite you, who think you have the right to hide behind a keyboard and be evil to someone you never met, to attend a refresher course, here, at the Wanderer's Voice.  Where discretion isn't just a multi-syllabic word you pull out of your ass to impress your friends, its an effective tool for knowing what you should do when trying to comment on something isn't in your lane.  

Lesson #1
Are you even old enough to remember the original Ghostbusters or its Bobby Brown themed sequel?  No? 

Then by all means...Shut the fuck up.

Lesson #2
If you are old enough to remember the movie and simply don't like what they've done with the reboot are you obligated by law or some other irresistible force to spend your money on the film?  No?

I refer you to the answer above.

Lesson #3
This is the really important one so pay attention.  If you think she deserves what is happening to her, and misogynoir (I learned a word today!) has nothing to do with it, do you feel that any other member of the cast should be subjected to the same treatment?  Have they been subjected to the same treatment?  No?

Then I invite you to re-read the answer to Lesson #1

Reinforcement is so important.


Now, ask yourself why hasn't Ryan Lochte hasn't been subjected to this level of abuse?  He created an international incident and legitimately embarrassed the country.  I've barely seen a meme.  

Ok a few memes.

Why hasn't Roger Ailes, former CEO of Fox News , who sexually harassed women on his staff for decades before his forced resignation, being treated to this level of shaming?  The man is literally a rapist.  Instead, he gets a cushy job with his fellow misogynist, Donald Trump instead of the proverbial burning at the social media (and likely criminal) stake that he deserves.




You don't like her movie? Don't see it. You don't like her style of comedy?  Don't watch it. I'm not a fan of hers for reasons that I'll discuss in another blog post but I'm perfectly ok with not calling her names or hoping to shame her for doing what's none of my (or anyone's) business behind closed doors.  Is this a price worth paying for fame? The idealist in me wants to pick up America and rattle it until the dregs who get off on this type of behavior fall into the Atlantic but I'm also a realist.  Leslie isn't the first and won't be the last because anonymity has brought ugliness and by extension the backlash to fame to an entirely new level.  As much as we'd all like to be rich, is it worth having to practically become public property to get there?  Some of us are a little more sensitive to that trade than others, especially when attacks like this tend to confirm our worst fears.  Sometimes, the price of fame can be too high.  

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Friday, August 5, 2016

Are You Not Entertained?: Just Thought You Should Know 8/5/16


Dear GOP,

You're getting exactly what you deserve.  8 years of petty criticisms of the President, made up threats about immigrants being evil incarnate, the god awful racism not so cleverly disguised as constitutional loyalty (looking at you Birthers), the crusade against education/intellectualism, and the need for your base to be afraid of everything (even their own shadows because they're black) has finally culminated in this absolute farce of a Presidential campaign.  For the first time in our history, we may end up with 3 major political parties in this country because I don't see how moderate Republicans can possibly reconcile their views with their Presidential nominee and his minions.


Trump supporters, I want you to take a good long look at your candidate.  I mean a real look.  Think about the reasons you support him.  It certainly isn't about policy, he hasn't presented one that wouldn't cost more money than it saves. It's not because of his business acumen.  It doesn't exist.  Ask Atlantic City, NJ.  It's not because he's not a criminal like "Crooked Hillary".  She's been cleared of every charge leveled at her by every single Republican-led tribunal/witch hunt the GOP can think of.  Trump, on the other hand, is still in the midst of multiple lawsuits involving possible fraud.  Oh, and he might be a child rapist.  Not kidding.  Is it his superior values?  The values that he thinks permits him to routinely insult anyone who disagrees with him?  Oh I know, "he tells it like it is!"  Except when he's talking about having met Vladimir Putin and then says that he didn't.  Or that he saw a video of Obama personally paying the Iranians and then he says he was mistaken.  Maybe he was straight shooting when he said he would build that wall around us and then admitted he wouldn't?  The #NeverTrump Republicans, who I respect, though I disagree with their vision, at least had the spine to stand up for their principles.  The rest of the party leadership simply fell in line behind this pompous, entitled, ignorant windbag and it may have not only cost them this election but their party's future.  Among voters younger than 30, Trump is polling 4th, behind Hillary Clinton, Gary Johnson (Libertarian Party), and Jill Stein (Green Party).  Think about that.  The nominee for the 2nd biggest party in the country is polling behind 2 people most of the country has. never. heard. of.  The 18-year-olds who are voting for the first time this election are looking at your nominee as the representation of your party and would rather vote for 2 people who are almost guaranteed to lose. Most people stick with the first party they vote for and the upcoming landslide is probably going to render your party irrelevant for the next 50 years.  As much as I despise Trump and what the GOP has become, that isn't a good thing.



Look, the truth is that the core values of the GOP aren't that crazy.  It's founded in the idea that people can take care of themselves if the government should just get out of the way and let us work. Neighbor helping neighbor instead of depending on handouts from Washington.  And there are valid criticisms of our current system.  Money in politics is a problem.  Even Bernie Sanders agreed with Republicans on that.  NAFTA was a disaster for the American worker and there are many non-college educated people who need work.  But too many times those frustrations tend to be expressed as outright racism when the reality is the answers to your frustrations are a lot more complicated than "blame the non-whites"  Our issues can't be boiled down to a few angry tweets and an agenda that's stuck in the nostalgia of yesterday's America.  On a personal note, I'm part of the first generation of African Americans who full rights as a citizen are legally recognized by our government, these are the good old days for me!  The world has changed. You can thank your conservative news outlets for not telling you just how much and what you can do to keep up instead of feeding you a steady diet of things to hate and fear. If you've been eating up Fox News, The Blaze, and Breitbart for the better part of the last decade, all it's gotten you is a pseudo-intellectual who claims to be your voice but has never been anything but an elitist 1% his entire life.  He's never not  been rich so how can he possibly be your voice if he doesn't even speak your language? Trump is the literal embodiment of the ugliness that has infected the principles of the Republican Party.  I would wear out my knuckles on my keyboard if I listed the times he's proven that he's not just a bad candidate but a genuinely bad person.  It's ironic that it took him slandering a Gold Star Muslim family, a religion he's vowed to ban from our country, to get people to finally see it's him that doesn't represent American values.  His nomination is direct evidence that the Republican Party is broken.  So broken that they're willing to trot out a racist demagogue in the vague hopes that they can re-take the White House by appealing to the very worst American fears.  We've reached the point where the house they've built is no longer safe for any American to reside in.  The roof is leaking, the foundation is shot.  The lessons of 2012, which called for inclusion and moderation, have been outright rejected and the results have been predictably disastrous.  If the party leadership continues to ignore the evolution of our country, its only natural that America will eventually ignore them.  Completely.

...Til Next Week!

You can read more about the "Growth and Opportunity Project" that was supposed to transform the Republican Party into a more inclusive party here.


Sunday, July 17, 2016

How to end #Blacklivesmatter: Just Thought You Should Know 7/15/16

2016 has gotten off to a really shitty start.  I say "start" loosely since we're in middle of July but the shitstorm of fail we've been going through feels like its not quite done with us yet.  As far as bad weeks go, its hard to top the week Prince died but with another terror attack in France, an attempted military coup in one of the largest countries in NATO, and cops in Dallas being killed by snipers, this week tried its damnedest to take the crown.  Don't get me wrong, there were some positive stories too but when the lowest point in the week isn't the deaths of more than 100 people innocently celebrating a national holiday in France, even the New Day would be hard pressed to find a silver lining.  This week I thought I'd examine just where Black Lives Matter is going as a movement and what would it take for it to abate.   




#Blacklivesmatter

There have been a lot of accusations thrown around by both sides of this debate.  Black Lives Matter has been called a "terrorist" group by numerous media outlets that I won't give the dignity of being mentioned here and likewise Black Lives Matter and their supporters have launched that same charge at our nation's police officers.  As always, the truth lies somewhere in the middle and no one has tried to step in and ratchet down the rhetoric because they're too busy trying to use the moment to push an agenda or get ratings.  If we're being honest, officers tend to get a overzealous when dealing with black people, no matter our social class.  They're less patient, less likely give us the benefit of the doubt, and much more quick to use force on us to gain compliance...and those are the good ones.  There are many departments that blatantly racially profile, harass, and brutalize African Americans.  These are facts.  Conversely, If the police force (en mass since we've been dealing in broad brushes all week) were really a terrorist organization on the level of the KKK, there would be a lot more dead black bodies in the streets.  Most of the egregious police misconduct we see on television are against poor blacks in poor black neighborhoods, where violent crime tends to be higher.  Naturally, officers who've never lived in the area and probably have never been exposed to this type of environment, are on edge.  They don't know the people, culture, mindset, nor do the people make it easy.  Granted, the modern police force started off as an organization of slave catchers and I already mentioned how officers tend to mistreat black people so the attitude is historically justified.  However, all that being said, "fuck the police" isn't helpful to anyone either.  Most officers do their jobs well and are not putting on the uniform every day with the sole intention to harass and murder black people.  Ticket quotas combined with decades of cultural conditioning are probably more responsible than a bunch of individual "rogue" racists in uniform for the current broken state of the relationship.  Most of them, like their civilian counterparts, don't even realize they're racists.  But even with all that on the table, I firmly believe this problem is solvable.  We need the police.  Their function in society is vital, which is why it is imperative that their applicant screening process, psych evaluations, and accountability steps must be impeccable.  But they can't do it alone.  Policing at its best is a joint effort between officers and the people they protect.  The cops can't arrest the people making our neighborhoods unsafe if they don't know who these people are.  Without reliable intelligence, law enforcement is forced to operate blindly with disastrous results.  There are several accepted aspects of police/community culture that must change for real reconciliation to happen.

Silence really does speak volumes.

Break the Blue Wall of Silence

As a veteran of the Army Reserve, I understand brotherhood.  I understand the power of instantly understanding what your fellow soldiers have been through to get where they are and to be instantly understood.  You want to protect your brothers (and sisters) against unfair treatment.  However, this practice has often stood as a shield for people who's racial biases, bully mentality, and misogynistic attitudes should disqualify them from wearing the uniform.  Too many of these "officers" use the law as a tool to harass, intimidate, and humiliate whoever they wish and until recently, their fellow officers remained silent about it.  We've already seen cracks starting to show in the wake of the deaths of Alton Sterling and Philando Castile. Good cops are finally fed up and starting to speak out against their prejudiced and corrupt colleagues.  In addition to the high profile cases of racial discrimination, we've also seen far too many cases of sexual abuse from officers.

Victims included unsuspecting motorists, schoolchildren ordered to raise their shirts in a supposed search for drugs, police interns taken advantage of, women with legal troubles who succumbed to performing sex acts for promised help, and prison inmates forced to have sex with guards.
The AP's findings, coupled with other research and interviews with experts, suggest that sexual misconduct is among the most prevalent type of complaint against law officers. Phil Stinson, a researcher at Bowling Green State University, analyzed news articles between 2005 and 2011 and found 6,724 arrests involving more than 5,500 officers. Sex-related cases were the third-most common, behind violence and profit-motivated crimes. Cato Institute reports released in 2009 and 2010 found sex misconduct the No. 2 complaint against officers, behind excessive force.
Cases from across the country in just the past year demonstrate how such incidents can occur, and the devastation they leave behind. -- Matt Sedensky and Nomaan Merchant, 11/1/15, Associated Press: Hundreds of officers lose licenses over sex misconduct
The police are the only public service that gives its employees the power to end another person's life if they deem it necessary.  Doesn't it make sense that the people they hire should be as free of prejudice as possible?  Do good cops want these maniacs representing them? Are these really the best candidates we can find?  If so, that's a bigger indictment on our culture than any North Korean propaganda film. 

When 'keeping it real...' is suicide.


"No Snitchin'" must end.

I lost a man I considered my brother to the bullets of a crazed drug addict on November 25, 2001 .  We came from a rough neighborhood and when you live in rough neighborhoods, meeting friends with spotless criminal records is hard.  As a matter of fact, when your neighborhood is over policed, schools are poor, and employment options are few, having a criminal record isn't as big a knock on your character.  It's expected.  It's what whether you go locked up for jay walking or got lock up for murder that matters.  Living in isolation isn't an option if you want to live a semi normal life so you talk to people, even if they've been to jail or sell drugs.  I was lucky enough to have gotten out of that environment through some extraordinary sacrifices by my mother but my God-brother couldn't so he had to deal with who he had to deal with.  Unfortunately, that post Thanksgiving Sunday night, my 18 year old God-Brother was walking home from his new job and decided to chat with one such individual.  Not long after, they were approached by a man wanting to buy drugs. My God Brother's friend was a known dealer so this wasn't out of the ordinary.  During the course of the sale, the addict decided he didn't want to pay for his purchase and produced a revolver.  My God brother ended up on his back and choking to death on his own blood at the bottom of dirty basement stairs, shot in the chest 5 times, while both the dealer and the killer fled the scene.  Both were eventually caught about a week later and the addict was charged with murder, his 3rd felony strike.  The drug dealer, in jail on an unrelated charge, was the prosecution's "star" witness as the only other person who knew what happened that night.  I attended the trial, determined to get the truth of why my friend was dead.  When the drug dealer finally testified, it wasn't his description of the last moments of my brother's life that hurt the most.  It was the during the defense's cross examination that we found out that the drug deal had committed an armed robbery 3 weeks before and the local PD failed to arrests him.  Had he been caught, none of this would have happened.  I initially blamed the police for not doing their jobs, for neglecting yet another young black man's death.  But I know the kind of people who live in the neighborhood we grew up in.  I know because its the same attitude I had as a teenager.  Too many instances of disrespect and outright abuse between us for anyone to say anything to the police.  Even if that meant an armed robber remained free.  The only thing that accomplished was another member of our family being robbed of his future.  Sometimes, the first step to rebuilding a relationship is taking a leap of faith.  We know which officers have no interest in engaging us as a community and which do.  Use those connections and return the respect you're given by making the officers who actually care look good so they can become the people in charge of setting the tone for community relations.  We can weed out the bad cops the same way customers weed out bad employees, build a record of complaints so long they can't deny the pattern of misconduct.  Keep filming, keep exposing them, and keep them from getting another job.  Fighting fire with fire only proves them "right" and costs more black lives.

"Broken Windows" was used in post invasion Iraq with disastrous results (Photo: Wired.com)

Broken Windows Policing/Stop and Frisk/Ticket Quotas Must be Abolished
For folks who are screaming at their screens right now asking about Chicago and why I'm not speaking as vehemently about the black deaths instead of bashing the police?  Simple.  Gang members and criminals didn't take an oath to uphold the law and represent the highest ideals of our judicial system.  It's a false equivalence.  A straw man argument.  It should go without saying that the police should be held to a higher standard as taxpayer funded peacekeepers.  Honestly, anyone who doesn't think that's fair should ask themselves if they'd like to be treated the way the people of Baghdad were treated during the American occupation because that's exactly what "broken windows" policing and "stop and frisk" are.  In theory, broken window focuses on aggressively enforcing petty crime to deter more serious ones, restoring trust, reducing fear, and increasing pride in a community.  It was initially successful in Iraq but that was because Iraqis knew that the local police were backed up by the heavily armed American military.  Eventually, that fear gave way to rage as civilians refused to talk to Iraqi police or American MPs, allowing Al-Qaeda to kill at will.  Since our departure, crime and terrorism are worse than ever in Baghdad.  In New York City, which credited the practice for it's dramatic drop in crime during the 90s, it's become another excuse to use already low income people as source of municipal revenue.  The proof is the dramatic reduction in tickets written during the NYPD "protest" against Mayor DeBlasio last summer.  There was no corresponding rise in criminal activity during the down period inadvertently proving most of the officers have become little more than uniformed backdoor tax collectors.  Stop and Frisk compounds the issue by treating innocent young men of color as criminals regardless of actual guilt or innocence.  You cannot build a trusted network of neighborhood intelligence when you don't make the distinction between civilian and criminal.  Now, just as in Baghdad, police all over the country are being targeted in retaliation for years of abuse.  Good cops are paying the price for years of ineffective leadership, stat padding arrests, and racial profiling.

Where does it end?

It ends with the end of racism.  We got a glimpse of what that America would look like in the weeks after 9/11.  I can't remember any other time in my lifetime that we were all Americans.  No hyphens.  We're not where we were before the 60s but we clearly have a long way to go.  I used to believe that as the older generation died out, they would take their prejudices with them.  Unfortunately, we're seeing the same old battles play out among people my age who didn't live through the civil rights movement, proving poisonous ideas are just as hereditary as eye color.  We shouldn't be surprised though.  Racism didn't die out with the end of the Civil War, either World War, nor the Civil Rights movement.  We've seen small steps though, taken after each generation, slowly repealing explicit legalized racism and with the legal restrictions on education and housing lifted, more African Americans than ever are rising into positions of leadership.  We must remember though, that these leaders are still forced to work within a system that constrains how quickly they can effect that change and how entrenched the social barriers are to that change.  It's like trying to chip away at a glacier with an ice pick.  Killing cops won't help.  Ignoring police misconduct won't help.  But don't just take my word for it...ask the US Department of Justice, who've made the same recommendations I've just spent the last few paragraphs blathering about.

Resource Guide for Enhancing Community Relationships and Protecting Privacy and Constitutional Rights

After-Action Assessment of the Police Response to the August 2014 Demonstrations in Ferguson, Missouri

Community-Based Approaches to Prevention: A Report on the 2014 National Summit on Preventing Multiple Casualty Violence 


...Til Next Week!

Sunday, July 3, 2016

If You Want Something Done Right...Just Thought You Should Know 7/1/16



Dumervil decided to take matters into his own hands (Photo: TMZ.com)


LB Elvis Dumervil, Baltimore Ravens Gives Back

Athletes giving to charity in the face of tragedy is nothing new, but when it comes to his ancestral island of Haiti, Ravens Linebacker Elvis Dumervil isn't taking any chances.  The NFL star partnered with New Story Charity to personally oversee the construction of 58 new homes in Bercy, Haiti, a small rural village 14 miles north of the capital, Port-au-
Prince
.  Dumervil's presence isn't a publicity stunt or a photo-op either.  After a massive earthquake devastated the already impoverished nation in January 2010, Dumervil was among the first to call for donations only to see that money either squandered or stolen by charities like Wyclef Jean's Yele Haiti, The Red Cross, and US Government agencies like USAID.  Less than half of the estimated $13 billion dollars donated to the relief effort actually reached the people who needed it the most and that wasn't a mistake Dumervil wanted to repeat. 

"I don't know how much was actually given to those people, but not all of it," Dumervil said. "Now I'm in a position with my own capital resources to negotiate with certain people and make sure that I can put action to my words and start doing things from my standpoint before asking people for money and help for the cause." -- Jason Hensley, Elvis Dumervil, Ravens' No. 58, building 58 homes for Haiti earthquake victims, ESPN.com
 He and New Story completed 24 of the 58 homes this weekend and hope to build at least 250.  The Baltimore Sun also reports that Dumervil is encouraging his teammates and colleagues from across the NFL to join the cause.  Haiti can use all the help it can get.  Amnesty international estimates that 85,000 people are still homeless as a result of the 2010 earthquake.  The National Palace, one of the most beautiful buildings in the country and a symbol of national pride since 1920, was destroyed by the earthquake and its ruins sat for more than 3 years before it was finally demolished in the fall of 2012.  The Earthquake was just one of the many disasters to have hit the country this century.  In 2004 Hurricane Jeanne swept over Hispanola.  While the more prosperous (and therefore more prepared) Dominican Republic suffered relatively light damage, the storm overwhelmed Haiti's infrastructure, causing massive flooding and mudslides.  Over 3,000 people were killed and more than 250,000 were left homeless.  In the immediate aftermath of the 2010 earthquake, the worst cholera outbreak in recent memory ran through the makeshift relief shelters and soon spread nation wide.  Even worse, the U.N., the people most responsible for helping Haiti get back on its feet, may have actually been the ones to unwittingly infect the populace.

Help make Haiti Great Again



Why does it matter?

Clearly, not everyone has the capital to push forward projects like this nor does everyone have the inclination to revisit their roots of poverty and struggle but when moments like this happen and a vehicle is created to help those who need it the most, it must be acknowledged and supported by people like you and me for it to do the most good.  People who gave their hard earned money to the charities I mentioned above will obviously be skeptical but New Story and Mission Hope Church have been doing this without publicity and fanfare for years with a proven track record of accomplishment. The addition of an advocate like Dumervil can only mean good things for organizations who have been already doing so much with relatively little support. 

What Can I Do About it?

You don't have to be an expatriate Haitian or a 1st generation born abroad to have compassion for Haiti.  I'm not Haitian nor do I have any ties to its diaspora but I am a West Indian and a member of the larger African diaspora and watching how much this country has been disrespected, abused, and ridiculed despite the fact that they were the first country to cast off the yoke of colonialism and slavery I almost feel obligated to give back.  I realize some people will see that as a reason not to give but they aren't who this appeal is for.  Elvis has opened a door.  It's up to us to walk through.

You can contact, donate, and/or read about Mission of Hope and New Story Charity through the links below.

https://www.newstorycharity.org/

http://www.mohhaiti.org/

...Til Next Week!


Saturday, June 18, 2016

Congress Grows a Conscience: Just Thought You Should Know 6/17/16

A filibuster for the ages

While the usual script of public figures "sending thoughts and prayers in difficult times" played out in the aftermath of the horrific murders at Pulse Nightclub in Orlando, Senators Chris Murphy (D-CT), Corey Booker (D-NJ), and other Senate Democrats made a decision we've been waiting years to see. They decided to actually do something.  Murphy led a 14+ hr filibuster,  stopping all Senate business, and refusing to give up the floor until they got a firm commitment from Republicans on gun legislation.  Murphy's state was the site of one of the most horrific shootings in American history...Sandy Hook Elementary.  That day, 20-year-old Adam Lanza, murdered 20 1st and 2nd graders, 6 teachers, and then killed himself before police could bring him to justice.  Murphy made sure to drive that point home...




Why does it matter?

While it's highly unlikely that the biggest piece of legislation Murphy was pushing for (a bill proposed by Senator Dianne Feinstein (D-Calif.) that would allow the attorney general to ban gun sales to suspected terrorists) would ever pass, cracks are starting to form in that impenetrable wall of "NObama" the GOP has been hiding behind since President Obama's election 7 years ago.  We're reaching a point where the no matter how many campaign dollars the NRA throws at Congress, it can no longer overshadow the rising body count.  Even the most ardent defenders of the 2nd amendment are realizing there is no reason for military grade weapons to be available to the public.  

"Gun owners who occupy the middle ground complain that they are rarely sought out or heard, yet polls show that the majority of gun owners support universal background checks and other controversial limits. President Obama is reportedly considering using his executive authority to impose new ­background-check requirements for high-volume dealers in private sales — and many gun owners may support that." -- Most gun owners support restrictions.  Why aren't their voices heard?, Michael S. Rosenwald, Washington Post, 10/09/2015

This is one of those "controversial" topics that's only controversial because of the amount of money that's been spent by lobbyists to make it that way.  Saying "gun legislation doesn't work because it doesn't cover illegal guns" is like saying the ban on murder doesn't work because Chicago is a war zone.  Really? Are we really going to buy the argument that we shouldn't save any lives because we can't save them all?  We're smarter than that.  Well, those of us who won't vote for Trump are...

What can I do about it?

It's not often you see politicians do something that doesn't involve lining their own pockets.  While I have no doubt that some anti-gun lobby(s) see this as an opportunity to further their agenda, its an agenda that makes sense to anyone, including myself, that's lost someone they love to a "bad guy with a gun."

These Senators get the Wanderer's Voice Gold Star for standing up for common sense:

Chris Murphy (D-Conn.)
Richard Blumenthal (D-Conn.)
Cory Booker (D-N.J.)
Bob Menendez (D-N.J.)
Bill Nelson (D-Fla.)
Dick Durban (D-Ill.)
Chuck Schumer (D-N.Y.)
Kirsten Gillibrand (D-N.Y.)
Joe Manchin (D-W.Va.)
Elizabeth Warren (D-Mass.)
Ed Markey (D-Mass.)
Ben Cardin (D- Md.)
Barbara Mikulski (D-Md.)
Patrick Leahy (D-Vt.)
Al Franken (D-Minn.)
Amy Kobluchar (D-Minn.)
Patty Murray (D-Wash.)
Maria Cantwell (D-Wash.)
Gary Peters (D-Mich.)
Debbie Stabenow (D-Mich.)
Bob Casey (D-Pa.)
Ron Wyden (D-Ore.)
Jeff Merkley (D-Ore.)
Jeanne Shaheen (D-N.H.)
Claire McCaskill (D-Mo.)
Mark Warner (D-Va.)
Tim Kaine (D-Va.)
Sherrod Brown (D-Ohio)
Tom Carper (D-Del.)
Tammy Baldwin (D-Wis.)
Tom Udall (D-N.M.)
Martin Heinrich (D- N.M.)
Michael Bennet (D-Colo.)
Brian Schatz (D-Hawaii)
Mazie Hirono (D-Hawaii)
Sheldon Whitehouse (D-R.I.)
Jack Reed (D-R.I.)
Joe Donnelly (D-Ind.)
Angus King (I-Maine)*


If your senator isn't here, you should seriously re-consider if he or she is the right person to represent your interests in Washington or if its you they're representing at all.

...Til Next Week!



Friday, June 10, 2016

Sex, Privilege, and Fairness - Just Thought You Should Know 6/10/16

Brock Turner is the most hated man in America...and deservedly so.
The poster child for every inequality in the book. (Photo: Vice.com)
  I normally shy away from topics that have been talked about ad-nauseam but what's happening with ex-Stanford swim star Brock Turner is something I can't ignore.   He's become the poster child for White privilege, male privilege, class privilege, and jock privilege, all wrapped up in one disgusting package.  I'd be shocked if he didn't commit suicide or at least attempt it in the next few weeks.  It's easy to forget that he's 21, barely an adult, and being scrutinized in the age of social media and the 24 hr news cycle.  If he weren't a coward, I'd almost feel sorry for him...but he is a coward.  No, I take that back.  He's a predator, camouflaged in the persona of the "all-American" swim star at an elite institution.  The kind of guy who's resume cultural conditioning tells us wouldn't need to rape a woman.  I guess that's what he thought too.  What kind of man takes an unconscious woman behind an outside dumpster like some strung out crack addict?  The same kind of man, who tried to convince the jury that his victim's command of the English language was reduced to saying "yes" to him but slurred every other word.  The narrative we are taught as men, that at our core, the ultimate measures of our success boil down to how much money we earn and how many 10s we bag are why men like Brock and his father exist.  It's pervasive, generational, and obviously without consequence. With a father who characterized this as "only 20 mins of action," is it any wonder Brock (and the people who defend him) think this way?  Women aren't people to these kinds of men.  They're goals to be met and challenges to be conquered, existing for the sole purpose of providing pleasure and validation of their masculinity.  Worse, he's protected by a system that allows people like him to take zero responsibility for what they do or the damaged people they leave behind.
"He's special, he has a future." (Ethan Couch after his capture in Mexico)


He has no idea of the psychological damage, the hell, he and his lawyers put this woman through nor do they care.  During the trial, he tried to paint her as a slut to save his own skin.  Using her lack of memory about the incident against her, he directed his lawyer to ask her questions about the most irrelevant topics, like how much she weighed and did she love her boyfriend, just to trip her up and destroy her credibility.  This is the same man that was tackled by two good samaritans after he was literally caught in the act, of digitally penetrating her unmoving body and his defense boiled down to:

She got drunk at a frat party, so she's guilty of being a slut.  She's the real criminal, not me.

The jury, thankfully, saw through it and found him guilty of all 3 counts of sexual assault.  If the "loss of appetite" as detailed in Dan Turner's letter to Judge Persky, loss of his swimming scholarship, loss of his college education, and the loss of his reputation are the only things he suffers from this ordeal then I'd say he still got off lucky.  The anonymous victim's statement to the court, which describes in vivid detail why this isn't a case of a groupie looking for a payday, has gone viral.  If you have a heart, it's a tough read.  She'll have to live with the scars he left both mentally and physically for the rest of her life.   Brock, of course, has yet to formally apologize or show any form of meaningful contrition but hey, why should he?  I mean, 3 felony convictions should be a societal scarlet letter. for most people.  For him?  Daddy will probably end up finding him a job in defense contracting after he serves 3 months for a crime that should carry a sentence of at least six years.  It's mind boggling to think an entire family can have such an utter lack of self-awareness until you realize that cases like this are exactly why they can succeed with their heads in the sand.  Accountability is only for people who can't afford good lawyers.

Why does this matter?

The sentence Brock received shits in the mouth of everyone who's ever fought for an equal and just legal system in the US.  Judge Aaron Persky, the man who thought jail would be too much for poor Brock, is not only a Stanford Alum himself but was captain of the Lacrosse team.  There's no question in my mind that Persky, who built his reputation on prosecuting sex crimes, saw a younger version of himself in Brock.  Stanford man to Stanford man, Elite athlete to elite athlete, Persky probably saw this as his way of "giving back" after he was appointed to his seat by another Stanford Alum, former California Governor Gray Davis. Justice for the victim?  She didn't go to Stanford so...


Soon-to-be-former Judge Persky told every woman who's ever been raped, every person who's ever served time for being falsely accused of rape, and every victim who didn't report their rape, "your pain doesn't matter."  There aren't enough Stanford alums in California to save him when election time rolls around again...assuming he doesn't get recalled before then.
This isn't the way college networking is supposed to work. (Photo abcnews.com)
What can I do about it?
1.  Sign the petition to have Judge Persky removed from the bench.  1 million have already signed as of this post.  This man has made a mockery of the court by shunning the victims he was sworn to protect.

2. Call, e-mail, tweet, or Facebook your local representative (House of Representatives) and Senator and demand they join their colleagues' call for Persky's removal.  

3. Don't dismiss it when a public figure perpetuates rape culture or trivializes women's rights or minimizes anyone's rights.  No one ever held on to their rights by letting other's rights be taken away, especially when it could be yours they come for next.  We need to do everything we can, even if it's little, to make sure we don't inadvertently co-sign any more Brocks by staying silent.


Til next week!






Saturday, May 21, 2016

Just Thought You Should Know 5/19/16

Happy Friday (or Saturday since life tends to supercede pet projects)!  I hope this week caps off a brilliant one in which you got all your goals accomplished, checked off that pesky to do list, and helped save the free world once again.   Conversely, if today is simply the last one an a grueling quagmire of shit, at least tomorrow is Saturday and reading this column will restore some faith in your fellow man.  Well, not really.
Maybe a sense of upliftment by watching others in much more dire circumstances than our first world problems.  If I'm really lucky, I've helped start unquenchable urge in those of you who are in a position to do something about it...to do so.  My goal here is to provide, comment, and illuminate situations that may slip through the cracks of our daily lives.  The kind of things we see a headline about but never click the article because its too long, we're too busy, or it's too depressing.  By breaking it down into more digestible chunks, I hope to get the important points across and leave the biased fluff behind. On that note, here we go...


The Supreme Court of the United States is MIA

SCOTUS is like a 3 legged table right now (Photo: ww2.kqed.org)
The death of Antonin Scalia has left the court effectively crippled.  With 4 liberal judges and 4 conservative leaning ones, the court is literally unable to come to a decision on some of its most important cases. The usual procedure when the court can't make a decision, is that the lower court's decision is upheld and no precedent is deemed to have been set.  In plain English, its like the Supreme Court never heard the case and the lower court's verdict stands.  One case already kicked back would have allowed non-union workers to avoid paying union dues, cutting off a major source of funding for organized labor.  A long term goal for conservatives who believe unions have become too powerful and get in the way of growing businesses.

Why does it matter?

An ineffective Supreme Court means Congress and the local courts have more power than ever since many of the cases now being heard might never make it back to the court.   Whether this is what Republicans wanted when they refused to consider Merrick Garland to replace their conservative hero, the late Antonin Scalia, is up to interpretation.  What isn't in question, is that the power structure of the United States, which is built on each branch of government having the power to check the other 2, is now severely out of balance.  More power than ever rests in the hands of a Congress that seems more concerned with party loyalty and partisan power than following the Constitution.  State rulings on labor, civil rights, and abortion have been notoriously partisan and will leave millions of people essentially stuck with whatever decision has already been made unless the plaintiffs have deep pockets.  Something most people obviously don't have.

What can I do about it?

Find your representative in the House
http://www.house.gov/representatives/find/
 
Find your Senator
http://www.senate.gov/senators/contact/

Tell your friends to do the same and remind them who put them in "power."  Republicans have seemingly mastered the art of using their votes to take out anyone who doesn't stick to the script.  Ask Eric Cantor.   Remind these folks that the ultimate power lies with you and they can be fired just like anyone else for not doing their jobs.


The Women of ISIS are not looking for "Jihotties"

They're definitely looking for something warm, long, and hard...

  
There seems to be a myriad idiotic narratives about why young women are joining ISIS.  The most misogynistic one, and the most insulting in my opinion, is the idea that these women join the most despotic terrorist group in the world...because they're looking for dick.  Comedians use it for cheap laughs but it's honestly how investigations are run almost every time an underage western girl takes off for Syria.  As if she's infatuated with suicide bombers like they're the ISIS version of the Backstreet Boys.  It never occurs to the usually male investigators that just like young men that go to fight, they're actually true believers who are just as dangerous as their male counterparts.  In the "west", as they call it, we've been socialized to treat women as the fairer sexwhich usually means seeing their intelligence as an aberration, rather than the norm.  Usually because we assume they think like we do...which is usually about sex.  It's something ISIS counts on when using women to carry out their attacks.
"Insurgent groups in Eastern Europe, Asia, the Middle East and Africa have used female suicide bombers as both a shock tactic and a strategic asset for decades. Two women detonated suicide bombs on the Moscow metro in March 2010, killing 40 people. The Al-Qaeda-linked Caucasus Emirate claimed responsibility for the attack." -- Jack Moore, Newsweek.com 11/18/15.

Why does it matter?

Because underestimating someone because of a stereotype is dangerous and stupid, especially when those stereotypes are used against you again and again and again.  History is littered with women weren't frail, emotional, or weak willed.  Though these women have decided to walk down a much darker path, respecting their decision, and holding them accountable for it would make spotting potential attackers much easier instead of relying on profiles that don't work.


What can I do about it?

As Joe "the Black Eagle" Madison says, "read with a third eye and listen with a third ear." 
Strange behavior is strange behavior no matter what race, gender, or nationality someone is.  If  you see something, say something.


MASE??

A long standing mystery about the identity of the New York Knick player in Biggie's "I Got a Story to Tell" has finally been solved!

If you don't know the song I'm talking about...unsubscribe immediately.

or just watch this.....

 
One of the few stories on wax that was verified by multiple NBA players and rappers in Big's inner circle to be true. It was also one of the best kept secrets in the industry until Fat Joe finally spilled the beans this week.

Why does this matter?

If you're aren't a Biggie fan or a Knicks fan...this isn't for you anyway.  If you are, do I really need to say it?  Mase and Big are probably laughing at all of us losing our minds over something they probably squashed years ago.


What can I do about it?

Laugh!  Laugh and remember the joy both these men brought into your lives musically and on the basketball court.  RIP Mase and BIG...

...Til next week!

Friday, May 13, 2016

Just Thought You Should Know: 5/13/16

Coming up with topics isn't my strong suit.  I love to write but I have to feel strongly about a topic to put my best and most authentic self into a piece.  Honestly, those moments come too few and too far in between to operate that way and still call myself a writer.  It would be easy to just gush about popular topics but that only takes you so far before you stop being original.  People shouldn't have a hard time telling the difference between you and Polly the Political Parrot (variations of which are employed by every foxy cable news national broadcast network).  It's lazy.  I also love to spread information, not in a know-it-all sense but in a hey-we're-all-busy-but-I-thought-you-should-know-this sense.  Which, not coincidentally, is the title of my new weekly column.  "Just Thought You Should Know" will feature culturally relevant stories that are a bit off the radar...or that I think are just plain funny. Stuff that would come up over a beer with good friends or things you'd tell your relatives "back home" about life in the land of milk and honey.  Hope you find these informative and add a little color to your day!  Enjoy.

  
Barack, you did it my nigga!


Larry Wilmore pissed off a lot of people with his closing speech at the White House Correspondence Dinner last week.  While his last line got the most media attention, it wasn't the most shocking moment. Looking at you Mr. "Alleged Journalist."

U mad, Don?
Why does it matter?

It might honestly be the first time you've seen such unapologetic, usually behind-closed-doors, blackness on full display.  Especially on such a historically non-black stage.  It made a lot of people uncomfortable.  Silly people crying "reverse racism" or "black privilege", black folks who felt embarrassed by the use of a word they've probably said in private dozens of times used in front of "all those white folk," and others who think the word should just be eliminated from the lexicon.

*sigh*

Look, self determination, the basis of individualism and freedom, is the root of American identity, right?  This country (in theory) was founded on the idea that I can be what I want to be.  That includes deciding how you want to be referred to, just like a nickname given to you by family or friends.  Only the people closest to you and/or who you deem worthy are allowed to call you that name.  Same concept. It's not that hard.  The President had no issues with it, why should you?  Even Don Lemon came around...

"Nope. Not mad at all."


The Philippines' President-Elect makes Donald Trump look civilized.


"Pope, 'son of a whore,' go home.  Do not visit us again." -- President-Elect Duterte being asked about Manila's terrible traffic being made worse by the pontiff's Jan 2015 visit (Photo CNN.com) 


Rodgrio Duterte, Mayor of Davao City for 22 years, will be the next President of the Philippines. Here are some quotes from Mr. Duterte during his rise to the top (Via Asiaone.com)

On crime- "Forget the laws on human rights. If I make it to the presidential palace, I will do just what I did as mayor. You drug pushers, hold-up men and do-nothings, you better go out. Because I'd kill you," he said at his final campaign rally in Manila on Saturday, referring to his record after 22 years as mayor of Davao.
- "I'll dump all of you (criminals) into Manila Bay, and fatten all the fish there."
Duterte is pretty high on Human Rights Watch's shit list considering his "Death Squads" are rumored to be responsible for more than 1,700 deaths in Davao.  Duterte also brags about having personally delivered his brand of justice on occasion.  
On women- "They raped all of the women... There was this Australian lay minister... when they took them out... I saw her face and I thought, 'Son of a b****. what a pity... they raped her, they all lined up. I was mad she was raped but she was so beautiful. I thought, the mayor should have been first." -- Speaking at a campaign rally about a prison riot in Davao in 1989 that saw inmates take a female Australian missionary working at the prison hostage before raping and killing her.
- "I was separated from my wife. I'm not impotent. What am I supposed to do? Let this hang forever? When I take Viagra, it stands up."
Charming.

 Why does it matter?

The parallels between him our current presumptive Republican Presidential Nominee are undeniable.  Even if he doesn't think so...

On Donald Trump- "He's a bigot and I am not." -- Mr Duterte rejecting comparisons of him with the presumptive Republican nominee in the US presidential election, Mr Donald Trump.
Obviously, the Philippines are not the United States but they are a legitimate democracy (as opposed to the Russian variety) and Duterte's election proves that being a sexist, murderous, jackass isn't barrier to public office.  Sometimes its a fast track.  His popularity is no accident as the Philippine government is one of the most corrupt on the planet.  It's not hard to imagine being fed up with a government that has abused the public trust so much that the people elect an "outsider" to fix things.  Cultural differences aside, people are people.  The Democrats, and Trump haters in general should come up with a better strategy to beat him than righteous indignation.


16 Black Female West Point Cadets won't be disciplined for...doing nothing in the first place.

Black Hooahs matter.  West Point Chapter (Photo: theRoot.com)
Add "taking a group photo" to the list of things black folks can't do without being suspicious.  I honestly expected better from the Army.  I really did.  The years that I served were some of the best of my life and it was one few times I felt judged by my merits alone.  I got what I earned, no more, no less and I never felt what I was mattered more that who I was...or at least what my rank was.  Unfortunately, the current atmosphere of crazy seems to have penetrated the Army's ranks.  I suppose in hindsight, I shouldn't be surprised, since the Army has always reflected the nation it serves, but it still disappointing to see something like this having gone this far.  The photo they took was a West Point tradition but for some reason John Burk, a military blogger who I have respect for as a fellow vet and no nonsense attitude...but seems to be clueless about racism, jumped to the all too familiar conclusion that certain gestures, when done by black folks, must "mean something."  In this case, he assumed that raised fists must mean solidarity with "Black Lives Matter."  He raised enough of a fuss to warrant an "investigation" which, thankfully, the Army found was much ado about nothing.



Why does it matter?

The usual reasons.  Double standards and hypocrisy.  While soldiers are forbidden to express much individualism while serving, including political statements, this isn't the first time the Army has needed to be reminded that it is a diverse group and that diversity must be respected.  Kudos to the Army, though, for showing that it can adapt to the changing culture and recognize faux outrage when they see it.  Burk, judging by his YouTube persona, seems like a good guy, good soldier, and loyal American. However, like most "mainstream" individuals, he's blinded by what he doesn't know and arrogant enough to assume he does instead of, y'know...asking.  The military might be the last true meritocracy left and that leaves a lot of its soldiers with a false sense that this is how the real world works. Especially if you joined at a young impressionable age.  I wish John the best but I would remind him, and anyone else who thinks they "know what they're talking about", when it comes to other groups to listen first and ask questions, instead of potentially ruining the lives of 16 young women because you care more about your right to speak than their right to live.



...Til next week!


Wednesday, April 20, 2016

Why Donald Trump is Good for America

The rise of the cult of Trump has caught many of us off guard.  How could a man who espouses such obviously racist viewpoints be so popular?  The reality is that America has always been this way. Just like every other country on the planet we are fearful, paranoid, protectionist, and xenophobic.  For as long as I can remember, Tom Brokaw, Dan Rather, or Peter Jennings were on TV to tell us about another boogie man just waiting for us to drop our guard so they could slip inside our homes to murder our children as they slept.  They were always godless, or at least didn't worship the same merciful, loving God we did. They did horrible, inhuman things to their own people, justifying our fear and loathing of them. President Reagan told us the Soviets hated us because of our freedom and would stop at nothing to drop an A bomb on Washington, subjecting us all to the iron fist of communism.  Communism, of course, being the scourge of capitalism though most Americans couldn't tell you why it was evil  or why capitalism is good .
You will lose...I must break you.
The Bush Dynasty told us Saddam Hussein murdered his own people with mustard gas and would have loved to do the same to us if given the chance.  We were told he was also conspiring with Osama Bin Laden after 9/11 so we had to launch a pre-emptive strike before he could get the chance to kill more Americans.  The news, the government, social media, and our friends tell us these things constantly so we know they're true!  Except they aren't.  Not totally.  Somewhere between our fear of anyone who doesn't speak English and the need to stroke our egos, the people stoking the flames of foolishness conveniently forgot to mention the Soviet Union's equal fear of us bombing them .  They also left out Saddam's status as America's staunchest ally in the Middle East prior to his invasion of Kuwait.  They also might have forgotten to mention the man he was supposedly  in league with, (actually, they hated each other) the man responsible for killing more Americans in the new century than any other, was partially funded by American efforts to train the Afghan mujahideen to fight the Soviets.  Now presidential candidate Donald Trump is telling us that Mexicans are evil murdering rapists that want to freeload on our freedoms, refugees from Syria will invade us and impose Sharia law the first chance they get, and the Washington elite are either complicit or spineless. Refusing to do anything about these threats because they don't love America like he does. Of course, only he and he alone, can "Make America Great Again."  He will.  Just not not in the way he intends. 

You mean we actually have to keep our promises?  Since when?? (Photo: politico.com)
Trump, for all his boorishness is clearly a student of history.  His rhetoric, heavy on anti-immigrant feelings and not much else, evidenced by the lack of policy specifics and insulting deflection every time he's asked to present details on any of his grand promises, demonstrates a mastery of demagoguery.  These guys would be proud.    He's spent years honing the art of getting people to pay attention to him through his reality shows, ingratiating himself into American pop culture like a virus.  In that arena, he's tolerable, harmless, and even entertaining.  Not a man to be taken seriously in the halls of power where his views could affect millions of lives in more ways than just what channel they watch for an hour.  Obviously, this has changed.  The skills that served him well to get television ratings are now getting him votes.  Exposing an ugly truth many of us who aren't part of the mainstream have known our entire lives.  He is forcing America to look itself in the mirror and many aren't liking what they see.  The world is also watching while a man who inspires bigotry and violence, marches seemingly lauded by the media, to our country's highest office.  His popularity proves our most damning critics right, exposing the hypocrisy of a country that prides itself on American Exceptionalism and as a multi cultural melting pot.  Is this really the end result of the great experiment?  We elect a man that appeals to our worst qualities?  The Republicans were so focused on power and stonewalling President Obama that they ignored the real needs of their constituents, unleashing this madness.  Now our country is in a battle for its soul.  America really has to ask itself if Trump, a man who can't decide if he should accept the support of Klu Klux Klan, encourages division not only along racial lines  but within the lines of his own party, who has been a rich man his entire life but claims to know what's best for the middle class, who employed the very same illegals he now calls rapists and criminals to build Trump Tower, who has taken advantage of the same overseas trade deals he now criticizes to make himself richer, has himself exported manufacturing jobs to China , and let's not forget is a long time documented supporter and friend of the Clintons, is really the man Americans want in charge of our military, nuclear arsenal, and public image?  I find it difficult to believe that a man like him would find much international support for American initiatives abroad, when he can't even unite his party behind him.  I also find it difficult to believe that any of our existing American based international corporations would back a President that openly insults their customers. We shouldn't forget, a politician's first allegiance is to the voters, no matter how much corporate money lines his or her pockets, the voters have the ultimate power.  Good luck trying not to "lead from behind" when our international allies threaten to vote out their leaders for following American policy.  The coalition of the willing did exactly that, in aftermath of the 2003 Iraq invasion, leaving the United States shouldering most of the responsibility and the cost as the war grew increasingly unpopular abroad.  When we finally did manage to untangle ourselves from Iraq, these guys filled the void. (Warning: Graphic)  That's a mistake I'd rather we not repeat. 

Donald Trump has forced the American people to a moral crossroads.  Ironically, this fiasco could do what Obama's election was supposed to do. Unite the country.  Neither Democrats nor establishment Republicans nor most of their constituents are eager to see a Trump Presidency.  For the reasons I stated above, he is a clear and present danger to the long term security and stability of the United States.  I am not exaggerating when I say that I believe that his election will not only set back our country back decades culturally, but the rate at which Civil Rights gains are being unfairly challenged , circumvented with biased legislation, and struck down by the Supreme Court, will accelerate.  America needn't be reminded of how years of exclusion, mistreatment, and marginalization of one group of Americans, eventually exploded into the Civil Rights movement.  Imagine if what Trump is proposing does pass and Black Lives Matter grows to include not only African Americans seeking justice, but becomes a banner for all American people of color to rally behind.  I don't see too many Trump rallies ending with sucker punches then.  You'd be dealing with literal human blockades at every venue he tries to book.  I've always believed that the fastest way to unite disparate groups is to present a common enemy big enough to threaten all parties.  Well, I think we've found our lighting rod in the man who sells ties made in China but claims he's all about giving jobs to Americans at the expense of our ideals.  This absurd campaign will bring about either one of 2 things.  Either America proves itself once again to have progressed beyond this type of gutter- level political discourse or everyone knows once and for all how far 240 years of our experiment has risen the level human consciousness.  Either way, we'll all know what we have to do.  I don't know about you, but I'm starting to think the boogeymen we should really be afraid of, are the ones who use boogeymen to keep us in line.